Be Genuine… Especially in the Wedding Industry

The wedding industry *loves* to showcasing once-in-a-lifetime tears next to really cute shoes, florals and gowns in glossy magazines aside photos of beaming newlyweds in love.

Commodity of love, beware.

Last week I received this email from The Knot:wpid-Screenshot2011-03-16at3.59.11PM-2011-03-16-16-03.jpg

So I did. I called the Account Executive from The Knot, perhaps because of the personalized introduction and willingness to connect.

The lowdown:

The friendly voice spoke for several minutes on-and-on about why their services would help people find me … generate buzz … boost traffic to my site … zzzzzzz …

Never once did the Account Executive ask about my business, or my interests, or any question for that matter.

That’s no way to make a sale. I offer this:

Genuine people want to help. Others just want the sale.

Circumstances may vary, but consider:

  • Asking smart, open-ended questions, not dumb questions with obvious answers. Play mind ninja. Be genuine. But be you.
  • Good questions build credibility. Don’t provide just service, build trust.

If you had two minutes of time to with a doctor, lawyer, or business professional how would you choose to spend with them?
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Future Clients: I might ask what you want to feel when you view your wedding album in 20 years. Be forewarned.

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